https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFCQLshYL6w
article
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/can_you_cultivate_a_more_secure_attachment_style
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/36_questions_for_increasing_closeness?_ga=2.47381102.87719263.1614779061-755558214.1614779061