- Listening Score: My score for this exercise was 47. I was a bit surprised because I think I am a great listener to my friends or family when it comes to any problems they’re having. One question said “I interrupt people when they’re talking,” which I have caught myself doing that sometimes to give them my advice.
It is important to respect other cultures and be aware of their communication cues. An example of this would be the Chinese culture. They rely more on expressions and and posture and are indirect when they communicate. What seems of the norm to one culture, may not be the case for the other. When I go on vacation to a different country, I try and do some research for things to avoid there, and positive things to do!
- Example: At times when I am having conversations with my friends, I tend to not listen to them all the way before jumping in with my advice. I tend to do that because I want what is best for them, but sometimes it comes off as not listening
My first college class was English, and there was a student from Russia starting her first year of college as well as a transfer. She spoke very little english so had a difficult time trying to communicate with the classmates. We were having a group project and to try explain things, we would use google translate. At one point, after we were somewhat on the same page, I made an ok sign and her facial expression changed for a moment. I did some research after and discovered it’s considered a rude gesture. I then realized the importance of being considerate with other cultures and how they may have different meanings. It is important to be active listening and show others we care about their feelings and what they saying.
- Reflections: There was a time at work where our boss was explaining our new assignment, but at the same time I was going through personal issues at home. I wasn’t all too focused on what what being said at our meeting, so once it was over, I was confused of what was expected of me. I was present during the meeting, but not actively listening. Luckily, I had good relationships with my coworkers that helped fill me in. Going through personal things at home is no excuse to be slacking at work, but it does make it difficult at times to focus. It is important to try and leave things outside of work so it is easier to focus on what you’re doing in the moment more clearly.
- APA Citations: Cuncic, A. (2022, November 9). What is Active Listening? Verywell Mind. https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-active-listening-3024343Links to an external site.
Mclean, S. (2018). Exploring Interpersonal Communication. Hard Copy Book.